"You know hon, while you're encouraging me to accept his offer to get drinks after work, just know this... I'm not going to lead him on," my wife said.
"So what does that mean?" I asked. That you intend to sleep with him?"
"Well, not necessarily," she replied. "He could blow it by being rude or obnoxious or something. But I won't play games. We're not naive kids. I know what he has in mind, and he knows I know. So saying yes means saying yes not just to the invitation, but also to the expectations."
